"Have I dis-respected you, or hurt you or behaved in a bad way?"
The children in the class shake their heads, they look confused.
"Have I treated you with respect and given you all the help and assistance I can to help you acheive your goals?"
The children nod their heads and look even more confused.
"Then why is it that you are dis-respecting and hurting me with your behaviour? If it's not something that I've done then all I ask is for you to treat me as I treat you."
They all nod and eyes drop with embarassment to the floor, the rest of the lesson passes without incident.
Sometimes we all need a reminder of how to behave with those that are only trying to help us be all we can be.